“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.” Oprah Winfrey
Life doesn’t make many guarantees for us anymore. We could be hit by a crazy senior citizen driver, eat bad food or fly on an airplane. There’s no way to guarantee life, and there never really has been. We’ve never been given a guarantee of living here on earth. We may have a guarantee of the next life from God, but there’s no guarantee on today or tomorrow, no matter how healthy we are or how hard we try to stay alive.
If you’ve read the book of Ecclesiastes you know the conclusion reached early on was that life is meaningless. I beg to disagree: life is only meaningless if you don’t do anything with it and don’t live the life you’ve been given. It may not be possible or smart to seize every moment and live each day to extremes, but most of us don’t do the most with our lives that we could. Oprah also said:
“I don’t think of myself as a poor deprived ghetto girl who made good. I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good.”
Not everyone will be as successful as Oprah, but we certainly can be more successful than we are simply by being more responsible for our lives. Being responsible includes taking big actions when called for, and knowing when taking a day off is the right thing to do. If you aren’t responsible for yourself you will find out pretty quickly that no one else will be either. I can’t make you be successful or happy if you don’t want to be and/or aren’t willing to put forward the effort.
What will you choose to do with today?