Sometimes the best thing you can do is make a big change. Athletes are usually forced into that change as they get to be too old to take the wear and tear on their bodies. The rest of us aren’t forced to change our lives half way through, but we do have the choice. In some ways its good that they get forced to change, and in some ways it would be good if we all had to go through that experience.
When athletes finish the field part of their life journey we don’t always hear about them again, unless there’s a tragedy or they did something stupid or they find another way to stay in the limelight like coaching or buying a team, and occasionally they choose to do remarkable things with their lives after sports. Otherwise they join the rest of us who live much quieter lives.
But the rest of us have been dealing with some changes too. We don’t typically go to one company as a fresh high school or college grad and stay there until we retire anymore. No, we usually bounce around as the economy and the business changes. Few of us escaped the major changes in the economy over the past decade or so. Many lost money and many lost jobs. Some of us cheered because we were finally free of the job we hated even if it was scary to be without a job.
I think it’s a good thing that we’re now required almost to deal with change on a more regular basis. It makes us learn how to rely on and work together with each other more. It’s almost forcing us to learn how. And while it’s not comfortable to be forced into things this is actually a good thing for most of us, at least it is as long as we approach it right.
If you’re facing a big change, a challenge, a turning point in your life I know it can be scary. It’s OK to be scared occasionally. But we have to choose if we’re going to be too scared to try something new, too scared to take the big and bold step or too scared to trust that God really knows what He’s doing and will guide us through it. Only when you don’t make that bold step or choose the can-do attitude will you continue to suffer through the change.
“I went from an old man in baseball to a young man in life. And I liked how that sounded. So, I consider myself young again.” Derek Jeter