A few weeks ago I shared about this verse:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7
As I was thinking about prayer and our discussion that week it got me thinking about what we use, for lack of better term, prayer for. Often our prayer life centers around ourselves and others. People are a big part of our lives. We talk with God about them when things go wrong or we’re concerned about them or when we can’t understand them. We talk with God about people because our lives are built on interactions whether in person, on the phone or over social media. And so we bring the people in our lives to God through prayer. Usually we ask Him to fix people or situations, maybe we ask for patience to help us work with that person.
But God has a bigger purpose for prayer, beyond just us telling Him about what goes on in our lives, although that is important to Him. God wants us to see situations as He does, be open to His leading and guidance, and see people as He does. God’s hope is that the time we spend in prayer over them won’t add more fuel to the fire but will open us up to His heart and plan for the people in our lives and their purpose for being there.
You may remember a time when someone revealed or you found out why they were being so annoying or what was going on in their lives that caused them to be so difficult and felt guilty for being so harsh on them. The same holds true for people we pray about: if we knew the truth that God knows we would likely be open to a change of heart about them and the situation.
So this week in your prayer time I encourage you to be open to what God wants you to know. Don’t forget that like any other conversation there’s time for talking and time for listening, that God knows more than you could about the situation and is just waiting for you to be open to hearing about it.
“…that when you pray for anyone, you tend to modify your personal attitude toward them.” Norman Vincent Peale