Happy Autumn! The new season has arrived, how are you feeling? Are you looking forward to what is to come this season, or are you more apprehensive of the changes that are coming? I’ve been thinking about what this season means to me and the potential it could hold. Some of those thoughts are pretty overwhelming, and often when it comes to change it does seem overwhelming. That could be the reason why you’ve been hesitating with changes that you’re considering in your life.
As I was thinking about autumn I was reminded of the season and events that are upcoming: winter and Christmas. We look to Christmas (or Hanukkah) with a big sense of anticipation, even as adults. We look forward to gatherings of family and friends. We look forward to seeing what the stores come up with as window displays. We look forward to our kids’ gleeful cheers and crazy antics with gift giving. We look forward to cookies, things we let ourselves eat once a year and even leftovers seem to taste better because it’s the holidays.
Sure some of us anticipate pumpkin spice lattes, apple pie and apple and pumpkin everything that shows up this time of year. Some of us really enjoy Halloween and others really enjoy the falling leaves and autumn activities. But do we really look forward to it as a season or are we so busy getting back into things, or missing the summer that we almost dismiss fall? Would we adjust better and enjoy ourselves more if we lived life with anticipation rather than dread or just trying to get by? I know that Christmas isn’t the perfect holiday, most of us can remember at least one bad one that we had (I can remember a couple that I was really sick for). So it’s not about having the feeling of Christmas all year long, or having Christmas all year long, but about looking forward to what life sends us.
I encourage you to choose an attitude of anticipation for the rest of this month and season, rather than dread or apathy and see what awesome things come your way.