This month we’ve been talking a lot about the topic of enjoying life, but for the next week we’ll be getting into the other topic that everyone talks about in October: Halloween. Today I thought we’d talk about something that can be a controversial topic, enjoying Halloween. I know that most people, whether they admit it or not, get a little excited by a scare, or find something intriguing about all things scary. It might be all about the mystery for people: there’s just so much we don’t know about what comes next, whether we’re talking about what’s around the corner, what’s in the dark or what’s after this life. For others it might just be all about the adrenaline rush that they experience when they get scared. But whatever it is, it captures our attention.
But what about enjoying the scare and enjoying feeling that fear? Is it wrong to watch scary movies, talk about legends/myths/monsters, try to scare others or open ourselves up to considering what might be out there? I think there are lots of scares that can be fun and are OK to be involved in, like telling scary stories, watching scary movies or visiting the Halloween attractions that open up every year in October (places with actors, not those that are reportedly haunted). I think that some would say it’s necessary to do some investigating of places that are reportedly haunted because there is so much we don’t know, and as the saying goes, knowledge is power. But I think we need to be careful of how far we go and of how much power we give the fear, because fears can absolutely ruin your life, and I believe there are some very bad things out there that we can’t see (not to mention the bad stuff we can see).
I think we all need things that excite us in our lives, things that make us feel alive, things that we’re curious about. But like racing hot rods, eating or gambling, I think that scares need to be taken in moderation. I don’t think that it’s something you should devote your life to unless you’re truly willing to face whatever consequences may show up. I think a little fear can be good fun with friends or family, and that it’s OK to watch a scary movie or ghost show on TV occasionally. So this Halloween, as your kids are running around in their costumes and consuming candy and other treats, if you want your treat to be a little fear, don’t feel too guilty, go ahead and enjoy.
What’s your perspective on fears, scares and Halloween?