Today in some religious circles is the day known as Good Friday, the day that Jesus was crucified on the cross. It’s a difficult day for us to think about, and it was a difficult thing for the people Jesus lived with to witness, and even more difficult for Jesus who was human to experience. He felt what we would feel if we were crucified, He didn’t hide from the pain or use his powers as the Son of God to deflect or bypass it. From all the records we know it was a brutal experience, which was kind of the point. But Jesus knew what He was getting into going in because He’s Gods’ Son, and He also knew what was yet to come: the Resurrection and Easter Sunday.
We don’t always know what the end result will be in situations in our lives. Sometimes we hope that the end we want is what will happen, sometimes we just hope for some kind of good result, other times we’re resigned to what is most likely to come. There will always be a result, sometimes it will be what we want or hope for, other times it’s not. But what we have to do is what Jesus did for 3 days: wait.
It’s not easy to wait, especially when we’re anticipating good things like Easter baskets or Christmas morning. It’s also hard to wait when we know we’re faced with a not so good ending like the death of a loved one from a disease or the loss of our job when a company takes ours the one we work for. In our fast paced world we like when things move at the speed of the internet or a fast food restaurant. One of the reasons we wait is because while we could have a result quicker, sometimes to get to the best result it takes more time. We’ve managed to do a lot to make things work better and happen faster in the world with all of our innovations, but two of the things we haven’t affected yet is the ability to affect the days and the time. We’re still bound by the rules of the universe when it comes to them.
But there’s no rule that says you have to be miserable while you wait or not work towards good outcomes even if the only likely result that can occur is not a happy one. But we can make all the moments up to and following that event good ones. I think one of the things that helped Jesus through His suffering was knowing what was on the other side of it. We may not know what’s on the other side of our pains and life challenges, but we can certainly have the attitude that whatever it is, we’ll be able to work through it with God’s help and the help of the people in our lives.