Today in the US is Mother’s Day. It’s a chance we all have to celebrate the moms and mom figures in our lives. We’re not at the point that we can just create kids, they’re still born the old fashioned way, even if sometimes a little extra help is necessary to get them here. I’m amazed with how far we have come with the technology/science we have to help kids into the world, and the technology/science we have that helps us all live longer and enjoy more time together as a family.
This week of course I’ve been reflecting on the upcoming Mother’s Day and on the state of the world and the kids of the world and the moms of the world. From a quick glimpse at the internet or any TV news program (and many TV shows) it’s pretty evident that there are problems in the world. Whether we try to be blind to it or not, there’s a huge problem with drugs (and I’m not talking medical marijuana use). There are too many people dying each day from drug overdoses. Which also says there are too many people using drugs to escape problems or reach for some high they’re not finding in life normally or doing it to be “cool.” There are also the stories of the not-so-good moms who don’t seem to have a care in the world, especially not about raising their kids with any manners, good behavior and goals. There are also some not so good statistics and stories about the kids of the world and some people have concerns about the ability of the next generation to run things in a responsible and thoughtful manner, regardless of their parent/parents teaching.
Can we all use some improving? Yes, absolutely. But Mother’s Day is a great opportunity to talk about the next generation. Do I believe that some moms need to step it up and do a much better job? Absolutely. Some moms don’t have the resources to care for their kids and don’t make any effort to get the widely available resources for them. They don’t feel that maternal bond or need to care for them that some moms do (the same is true for dads as well). But if you’ve been around for a bit you know I’m a supporter of the concept of having a village raise a child. There’s no reason for anyone to try to do it on their own. That means that each and every one of us has a responsibility to check how we’re behaving and talking around kids, to support child related organizations and charities and to step up for our own families when they need the support. Tomorrow can be a bright future, but only if we all step up for the next generation.