This weekend and specifically on Monday in the US we’re celebrating Memorial Day. This month has been an interesting adventure for myself, my partner and my family, and even though there have been lots of challenges and changes, many of them have reminded me exactly how grateful I am of all the freedom I have in my life to make the choices that I make. As limited as we are in some of our choices, like having to work and sometimes having to accept where we live because we can’t afford anything bigger/better/elsewhere, usually there’s still choices to be made and thankfully we’ve got more than one option to consider.
We’ve talked about how capable we each are, that we’re often able to do things we didn’t think we could, and it is true that we could do a lot of different jobs or live a lot of different places if that was our only option. During WW2 and some other wars many people were asked to work different jobs (or work instead of being at home) to pick up the slack for those who were off fighting or to help create the products that were needed for the war. So yes, we’re all capable of doing many jobs, but that doesn’t mean we like to do them or we’re best qualified for them or we feel the best about ourselves and our contributions when we’re doing them. So in many ways freedom is about having the ability to choose the contribution you are making in the world.
But we have so many more freedoms to be thankful for, like being able to choose who our significant other is, being able to watch thousands of TV shows and movies, being able to travel to most parts of the world, being able to choose what we eat, being able to choose our faith, being able to choose what we read, being able to choose what we do with our spare time, being able to choose if we’ll raise children (whether we’re able to have them naturally or adopt them), and being able to choose what we wear, just to name a few. And this weekend we’re remembering and being thankful for the freedom to live without constant threat of war thanks to the men and women who put their lives on the line for us.
When faced with all the challenges, changes and responsibilities in our lives, we sometimes forget that behind them are really decisions we’ve made in the freedom to make decisions. What freedoms are you thankful for?