There’s a point in your victory journey that you have to decide if you’ve reached the goal or if there’s still more mountain you can climb. One of the world leaders I’ve paid attention to is Jacinda Ardern, the New Zealand Prime Minister, who announced that she’s stepping down from her leadership position even before a new election can happen. Why? Because she feels she’s done the job for as long as she can, for as well as she can and now she needs to pass the baton off to someone else. I’ve admired her leadership for many reasons including how self aware she is. How do I know she’s self aware? Because in the minds of many she has been successful as one of the top leaders of the world while giving birth to and raising a child and now she says she realizes she can’t do it any longer. Jacinda feels she’s reached the top of this mountain in her life, she’s successfully completed the victory journey, and now it’s time to climb down from this mountain and move on to the next one.
It takes a ton of courage to decide that you’ve reached your mountain top in a victory journey and be able to let it go before you end up falling down the other side. You have to really be in tune with who you are, with your limits, with your risk tolerance, with your energy levels, with your responsibilities, and even with your goals for the long term beyond your current victory to be able to make a wise decision about what’s best for you and anyone else who may be affected by your continued presence and efforts to stay on the mountain top. I have yet to hear about or work on a victory that doesn’t have an end (or goal to reach which is how you know you’ve accomplished the victory), or at least a completion before the next level of the victory journey begins, and people who work on victories in their lives regularly don’t usually have one victory and are done, they keep growing and learning.
To be clear, this is a big difference from saying you’re not going to be able to reach the mountain top and that you’ve done your best and now are deciding to move on to a new victory journey with the lessons you learned from this partially successful one. In this case you have indeed accomplished the victory you set out to accomplish, you celebrated that accomplishment and have done anything else that needs to happen to wrap up the victory and now it’s time to move on to the next stage of your life. I know it’s not easy to say good bye to the mountain top and your successful victory, but you can’t get to the next great victory unless you say thank you to this victory experience and step forward with courage into the next. Is it time for you to move on to a new victory journey?