What expectations do you have in life? Since 2020 many of us have greatly lowered or changed our expectations, and with good reason because of how unexpected, unpredictable and rapidly changing and developing just about everything has been. Along with our expectations we’ve also tempered our anticipation and excitement about life because we’ve been disappointed so often with all the changes and delays. This won’t be the last time we have to adjust our expectations and anticipations, and I think that’s OK. I know, that’s probably not what you were expecting to hear, but sometimes we put too much pressure on ourselves, and others as well, and it’s good to be given the opportunity to check on our demands and make sure that we’re not being unrealistic about life, our abilities and others’ abilities. Maybe (hopefully) we won’t get the reality check that we got in 2020, but just enough of one that we can check in with ourselves and make sure that we’re honest about where we’re at in life, where we’re headed and what’s going on in the world.
But at the same time I think we’ve let the losses, failures and disappointments of the world distance us from our relationship with God. I’m not suggesting that we need to all become monks, nuns, brothers, sisters, pastors, ministers, friars or other men and women of the church, or spend all the hours that we’re not working or sleeping in religious services. But that if we more consistently and regularly spent time with God, we’d have expectations and anticipations more in line with Him and His plans for our lives. It’s not an exemption to being subject to what’s going on in the world, but spending more time with God means that you’ll be better centered, focused and balanced to take on what goes on in the world.
Why haven’t you spent as much time with God as maybe you used to? I know there’s the temptation to blame God for the pandemic or at least blame Him for not warning us, and because of that desire for blame you backed away from God. Or maybe you’re not spending as much time with Him because you’ve read the Bible and now it all seems “old” and nothing changes. So start small and build back a habit of spending time with God. Start with a 30 minute service or sermon that you record on TV, take 10 minutes from your morning or evening to pray; and/or get back into the habit of having devotions (YouVersion has lots of devotions, some as few as just a couple of days long if you’re in need of great variety, or some that last 60+ days if you really want to dive into a topic).
I do think we can have expectations and even be excited about how we anticipate things will work out or become, as long as we don’t set ourselves up for thinking that every single life experience will be a Mt. Everest moment, because it won’t. What expectations and anticipations do you have for the rest of this year?
“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is by his great mercy that we have been born again, because God raised Jesus Christ from the dead. Now we live with great expectation…” 1 Peter 1:3