Have you noticed autumn leaves on the ground scattered among the new bits of green growth starting to pop up? Or seen them dancing down the street with a spring breeze? It something that happens every spring where I live. Why does it happen? Because some trees don’t shed all of their leaves before the winter snows (or during them), but when the new growth starts to happen in the spring, that growth pushes the old leaves out to make room for the new ones. It’s yet another Mother Nature experience that can teach us so many different lessons for our lives and in our victory journeys. But the one I want to focus on is one that you might have missed when you see the autumn leaves in the spring or didn’t catch in my sharing, I know I did for many years. The lesson is simply that it’s OK to need some help.
I’m sure that the trees aren’t thinking as I shared here, but it must feel good to be able to release those last few leaves that just weren’t going anywhere from the previous growing season, especially since it’s making room for new growth and new beautiful green leaves. After all, it would look pretty funny if among all the bright, new green leaves there were dry, brown ones just hanging out too. So God designed it that if a tree didn’t lose all the leaves in the previous autumn drop, the tree would get a little help from the new leaves growing in. It’s not about a tree not having done their job in the autumn or over the winter, but God saying that the did the job it was supposed to do, and He put in place a little extra support for the spring to make sure that the tree has the best chance for growth and health in the new growing season. If trees could talk I’m sure they’d say something along the lines of “thank you for having my back and helping me start strong.”
How do you approach or perceive help that comes along in your life? Do you see it as someone saying that you’re incompetent or not capable enough or as the helping hand there to help you be your best and thrive in life? As the classic song says “I get by with a little help from my friends.” As much as our victory journeys are ours alone, very little in life today is truly 100% dependent on us. I’d say that more than 90% of the time we’re always succeeding or even living with the help of something or someone even if it seems like it’s all us. For example if you were to wash the dinner dishes, you might be doing it all on your own, but you’re doing it with the help of a sponge or rag, the water piped into your home, maybe the light in your ceiling so you can see to make sure they’re clean, a towel or stand to let them dry, and of course some soap! So as much as you’re doing it all by yourself, many other people who you will never know or directly connect with helped you emerge from the kitchen victorious and with clean dishes. The sooner we accept that it’s healthy to be part of a team and be supported on our victories, the easier it will become to ask for help we need when we need it, and the quicker we’ll incorporate support into our victory plans which will help us accomplish our victories more confidently, quicker and with less stress. Sometimes leaves fall in the spring, and sometimes we need a little help to get to our next milestone or grow a little more too. What help are you thankful for in your life?