The past few weeks we’ve been hearing about many tragedies around the world, something that isn’t really new, but seems to have taken on another level of activity again recently. As humans we struggle to understand how people can be that violent and inconsiderate of human life. As spiritual people we struggle to understand how anyone could kill another person, or could live with the hate that’s being slung around at people regardless of whether they deserve it or not.
I know that until Jesus comes back we will continue to have wars and violence, that’s part of the sin experience. But I believe we can do a lot more to heal our country and world, and it starts with having faith that the people we share this planet with are worth working towards a better future for and are just as human as you or I.
It starts with not believing we’re just defined by our race, religion beliefs, political opinions or social status. Yes, those things do define us, but they should not be our bottom line. Using a very publicized example that means that just because you’re black not everyone is out to get you. You have to take the first step to see yourself as something other than what someone could define you as.
Why? Because many people are capable of treating each other as average/ordinary human beings without a specific label, but some people escalate and force them to profile them that way. For example if a police officer pulls you over and you get all angry and curse at them saying that they pulled you over because you’re black, when the reality is the police officer may have had no idea what race you were, but pulled you over because you had a taillight out or were on your cell phone or you were speeding. If you pull the stereotype card that’s how others will often treat you.
However, we’ve got a choice to begin our lives, our days, and our attitudes in a different way. We can choose to make fewer assumptions, choose healing and love rather than hate and judgement, and choose to listen and learn before reacting. Unfortunately there will always be people who stereotype others and treat them based on some factor like race or religion that really may have very little to do with who that person is. But for the many people who don’t see you and me specifically or only as our race or religion, working on treating them better and making fewer assumptions could really go a long way to healing many of the issues in our world.
What kind of legacy do you want to leave for the next generation? One of perpetuated hate or one of healing, growth and opportunities?
I’m a fan of saying no to people, you know why? Because you don’t have to be everything to everyone. Not only is is about being honest to who you are and not putting yourself in positions that you’re completely unqualified for or incapable of doing, but because every time you take on something that you’re only slightly capable of (or not at all), you take away an opportunity from someone else who is qualified. If we really want this world to be all it can be, I think we have to be willing to share a little of the control with others, have to be willing to let them do their thing, and not get in the way when they take charge.
Yes, there are time when you’ll go a little outside your preferred box to help a friend or to try something new, and that’s a good thing. We should be trying new things to keep our minds engaged and learning. But we have our safe zones for a reason. The good news is that my safe zone isn’t the same zone as yours. You’ve got talents I don’t have and don’t have any inclination for developing. I believe there are plenty of opportunities for us within the things that interest and drive us that we should never have to take work, resources or life away from someone else.
But that does mean that we all have to step up in that which we are gifted in, and a whole lot less slacking, hiding or letting someone else’s sub-par job suffice. You need to take responsibility for what you can do in this world with your unique talents. Be proud of who you are and what you can do. That doesn’t mean you have to start a business or blog, it may just mean finding a company to work with and bring your unique talents to (one that fits better than your current one), or donating your time on weekends or vacations.
This week I encourage you to give others the chance to do what they do best, and choose to do what you do best. Who knows, you may not cure cancer today, but you certainly may bring a smile to someone’s face or relief to their life in some other way.
I was reading a very interesting article about how rivers can be a representation of our lives. The other option is to be a stagnant pool of water. I don’t know about you but I’d rather be a moving river than a mosquito home. Throughout the Bible the topic of rivers are returned to again and again, including a very painting-worthy passage in Ezekiel 47. Rivers were often used because the people knew them to be a source of life, and in using them as a teaching example the listeners could more easily understood the concept of the living word and life of God, especially before the birth and death of Jesus (although there are lots of examples in the New Testament, too).
Where are you at in your life right now? Are you in a stagnant place? Or are you being swept away by life? Or are you moving along with life, taking it as it comes? The funny thing about rivers is that they can do a real good job of hiding the truth. What can look like a peaceful spot can be deadly to dive into or a bottomless pit or have an incredible current that will sweep you under before you know what’s happening. People too can hide the truth, there are countless people all around the globe that are hiding their real feelings, hurts, frustrations, fears and maybe even their joys. They hide because they’re afraid that if people knew the real them, they would be judged. And the unfortunate thing is many would be judged, humiliated, laughed at or not taken seriously, that’s how too much of our world works.
As people of faith we’ve got a responsibility to step up and be better people. It’s unfortunate that we too have at times fallen into the judgment zone, trying to look all perfect to the world while struggling privately. No, we’re not supposed to live as sinfully as others in the world do, but Christian or not we’re still human and have our not so great moments. We have many of the same challenges to face as others do around the world, we just know that we can go into the rushing river with an excellent rescue team on hand for us (the people at our church or Bible Study or other faith-based group, not to mention God).
Is this your week to conquer the river in your life? I encourage you to be brave and say that enough is enough, and choose to move as your life (and God) directs.
Today in the US is Mother’s Day. It’s a chance we all have to celebrate the moms and mom figures in our lives. We’re not at the point that we can just create kids, they’re still born the old fashioned way, even if sometimes a little extra help is necessary to get them here. I’m amazed with how far we have come with the technology/science we have to help kids into the world, and the technology/science we have that helps us all live longer and enjoy more time together as a family.
This week of course I’ve been reflecting on the upcoming Mother’s Day and on the state of the world and the kids of the world and the moms of the world. From a quick glimpse at the internet or any TV news program (and many TV shows) it’s pretty evident that there are problems in the world. Whether we try to be blind to it or not, there’s a huge problem with drugs (and I’m not talking medical marijuana use). There are too many people dying each day from drug overdoses. Which also says there are too many people using drugs to escape problems or reach for some high they’re not finding in life normally or doing it to be “cool.” There are also the stories of the not-so-good moms who don’t seem to have a care in the world, especially not about raising their kids with any manners, good behavior and goals. There are also some not so good statistics and stories about the kids of the world and some people have concerns about the ability of the next generation to run things in a responsible and thoughtful manner, regardless of their parent/parents teaching.
Can we all use some improving? Yes, absolutely. But Mother’s Day is a great opportunity to talk about the next generation. Do I believe that some moms need to step it up and do a much better job? Absolutely. Some moms don’t have the resources to care for their kids and don’t make any effort to get the widely available resources for them. They don’t feel that maternal bond or need to care for them that some moms do (the same is true for dads as well). But if you’ve been around for a bit you know I’m a supporter of the concept of having a village raise a child. There’s no reason for anyone to try to do it on their own. That means that each and every one of us has a responsibility to check how we’re behaving and talking around kids, to support child related organizations and charities and to step up for our own families when they need the support. Tomorrow can be a bright future, but only if we all step up for the next generation.
As we think about this month’s topic of love and the celebration of Earth Day later this week I wanted to share a verse that will challenge us on both topics: Psalm 24:1 says:
“The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.”
First this verse reminds us that if we really care about God and are following Him, we’ll take care of what He has given us. That means being a little more aware of what you’re buying and doing and how you’re interacting with nature and the impact you have on it. We all have an impact, but we can make smarter choices to minimize that impact and protect the gift God has given us.
Second this verse reminds us that God created everything in the world, all of the plants, animals, creepy crawlers, and people. I know it’s hard to imagine the God that created you and me also creating things like scorpions. It’s also hard to imagine the God that created Billy Graham created Hitler too, but according to this verse, He did.
Which brings us to our challenge. It can be really easy to be sloppy and lazy and not take care of the earth, after all there’s a really good chance that it will last through our lifetimes regardless of the damage we do. It can also be really easy to just focus on the nice and good people and ignore those who display their faults and imperfections more than the rest of us do. But this verse challenges us to remember that God has called us to care for that which is His; all of it. That means attempting to remove our judgements, preconceived notions, prejudices and opinions and trying to see things from God’s perspective, which can be easier said than done.
But just like with caring for the earth and making earth-friendly decisions, treating all others with respect and courtesy, and maybe even love, is something you can get into the habit of doing. God didn’t say it would be easy, but He called us to set the example for our fellow man. So as we move away from Easter and toward Earth Day, I encourage you to consider how you can be more considerate of “everything” that the Lord has created. What ways will you choose to show love today?
Monday we celebrated the life of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Dr. King was best known for his speech at the March on Washington in 1963 and his work for the Civil Rights campaign. What not everyone remembers is that he grew up in the church and was an American Baptist minister. He never gave up on his faith through his short life, and spoke at his church a few months before his death. Faith was important to him and he was very traditional in some of his beliefs and often referred to his faith during speeches.
Today I want to look at one of the more spiritual things he talked about. He said (referring to the Good Samaritan Bible story):
“The first question which the priest and the Levite asked was: ‘If I stop to help this man, what will happen to me?’ But… the good Samaritan reversed the question: ‘If I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?'”
It’s a question that I think Dr. King himself asked throughout his life and work with the Civil Rights movement, and it’s a question we should all be asking ourselves. If we choose not to get involved what will happen? I know that sometimes it seems like we’re being asked to do everything and no one else is stepping up. We get tired of that. We get tired of feeling like we’re the only one doing anything. But I think two of the reasons that many people don’t step up include that they don’t want to do it alone and don’t feel they have a personal stake in the issue. However I believe that what affects some of us will soon affect many of us.
As Dr. King and his commitment to human rights is remembered this week I encourage you to think of others and some of the causes you can support. Yes, you may have to put forward some effort or resources, but remember back to the last person you helped that was really grateful and you could see the benefit of what you did for them. That’s the feeling I want you to remember the next time you’re asked to help someone or with something.
July 18th was the birthday of one of the great men of the world: Nelson Mandela (celebrated as “Mandela Day”). No one is perfect (Mandela included), but he’s someone who showed throughout his life that he was a true leader. A 2013 article on Mandela called him a “Dissident, Liberator and Statesman.” Those are 3 big titles that all say something important about who he was, but the one I wanted to focus on today is “liberator.”
Mandela knew what it was to be not free, he spent 27 years in prison for his efforts to make South Africa a better place for people. Some people, having had his experience, would throw in the towel and spend the rest of their years quietly, thankful to be free. But Mandela never gave up on his dreams of and plans for a better life for himself and the people he loved, and people around the world too.
We take time each year to remember people like Nelson Mandela and the dreams they had for a reason, a reason that seems more important than ever with the violence over the past few weeks and months around the world. People like Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King Jr, and countless other men and women who have passed on would not be proud of the people some of us have become. I think they would be happy to see that some thing have changed and are changing for the better, but sad that we are fighting on many of the same things that should have already been addressed, and creating issues that shouldn’t be issues and haven’t been in the past.
What it comes down to is that the world is always in need of more people like Nelson Mandela. You don’t have to be in a traditional position of power to make a difference, you have to decide that you’re going to give your best effort to fixing or alleviating the problem(s) you see in the world. Whether you make that effort in jail, on the street, in your office, in a school, or as a president doesn’t matter. What matters is that you choose to step up and let people know that they too can be liberated and choose what they want to make out of life.